Friday, June 18, 2010

The love of the game

Last Monday morning, as people came in the office they stopped by my neighbor colleague’s desk to congratulate him. Just because he’s German. The German soccer team had played exceptionally well on their opening game against Australia the night before. I too congratulated my colleague (Joaquim Lowe’s men really did an awesome job) but secretly I was a little annoyed too. My colleague doesn’t like football! He doesn’t care about the World Cup, doesn’t know the players of the Manchaft and didn’t even watch the game! And yet, people kept congratulating him for the great way his team had played and it kept bringing a smile to a face and his chest kept swelling up with pride.

I wasn’t annoyed because he got all this attention despite the fact that he can’t tell the difference between a soccer ball and a basket ball. I was annoyed because I wanted to one day be able to feel that same feeling of satisfaction and pride and sheer pleasure of knowing that my home country had entertained the world with 90 minutes of an amazing display of teamwork, technique and courage.

Kyle explained really well how we feel about our home team. Not only as expats but as die hard fans and life long enthusiasts of the game of soccer. Although I didn’t grow up playing the sport like she did, like her I also love the game and feel it in my gut when watching a match, any match, be it the Champion’s League, the Mexico’s liga or plain friendly games. And especially, especially when el Tricolor plays. Just like Kyle, I too have a conflict of interest when my home country (Mexico for me) plays my host country (in this case, France) and just like Kyle I too have absolutely no doubt in my mind of who I’ll root for.

It’s hard to explain to you how I lived those 90 mins last night. Hubby was in London and we had agreed that we wouldn’t discuss the France vs Mexico World Cup match over the phone. I wouldn’t have been in any shape to do so anyway. During that hour and a half I jumped, I shouted, I pounded my fists, I begged on my knees, I kicked in the air, I spat and cursed, I prayed to my dad, I yelled to the seven hells, I frantically twi-facebook-ittered and when it was over, I was spent. I was speechless, I was PROUD. The emails and text messages started pouring in as soon as it was over, but I just looked at the screen in absolute awe.

We beat France in the second game of the first round of the World Cup. We BEAT THEM. We were better on every count. From the way fans painted the stadium in red, white and green and put those vuvuzelas to shame with cries of Olé throughout the game, to the way every single player on the Mexican side showed an impressive amount of technique, courage and class on the field. We were better because we were stronger at our weaker points. We were better because by the end of the game we'd even won over the French commentators. But above all, we were better because we played as a team and because the team played for us, the Mexican people.

I’m not deluded enough to not realize that there is still a long, long way to go and that this is not such a big thing in the grand scheme of things. After all, stronger teams like Argentina, Spain, Brazil could probably beat us in a heart beat if they played to the fullest of their capabilities. And after all, Mexico has always made it to the next round in the recent World Cups so passing this time isn’t such a big exploit.

And yet…. this morning, every single colleague on my platform, French and non French, came to my desk to congratulate me. Even my German colleague. All told me that it had been a real joy watching the Mexican team play ball last night and be reminded of why we love this game so much.

And my chest swelled with pride for the Tricolor and for being a Mexican.





Fned.

P.S. Germany just lost 1 to 0 to Serbia.

4 comments:

Kyle said...

Most people are surprised to hear this, but I totally root for Mexico in the World Cup as long as they're not playing us. I get pissed when people down here talk about how the Concacaf qualifying group is a joke, so I'm always looking for ways to prove them wrong. And Mexico is pretty good about coming up big in the games that matter. They played SO well against France.

And the other thing too, I just enjoy the entire American (referring to North/South/Central) style of play much better than the European style of play. Aside from Germany, most of the teams from Europe take cheap shots, roll around on the ground for hours trying to draw a fake foul, stall and time waste as much as possible. They play an ugly and I don't like that.

Mexico doesn't do that. The U.S. doesn't do that. Both of us play clean and fair. Argentina and Brazil are starting to, but it's not nearly as bad. So I'd rather see the teams from this side of the world kick ass because that's the kind of game I want to see play. Last World Cup I HATED that the final was France/Italy. I could barely even watch it.

And of course, there's something about the uncivilized Americas being able to beat the Old World at their own game :) It's fun.

Now, just don't let Andre read my comment!

Jonna said...

¡Viva El TRI!! It was a fantastic game that had me jumping up and down and yelling at the screen. When El Conejo got that 2nd goal on the free kick, my whole block went crazy. I went out on the roof and I could hear the buzz from all the TVs and the screams coming from every house. Funny thing is that I thought of you over there and hoped you were somewhere that you could show your joy and pride without worrying.

I was never a soccer/futbol fan in the US but I did watch the US game yesterday. Eh, not very good. I've had a great couple of sports days, my Lakers won the championship in basketball last night and that had me ecstatic.

BlondeInFrance said...

I was hoping you'd post about it, I was wondering how you'd react! During World Cup time I suddenly become fiercy patriotic, and forget all the reasons why I prefer France to the states, lol.

Fned said...

Kyle: I TOTALLY agree with you!!! People here keep telling me that the weak point with the Mexican (and most Latin American teams) is that they have no aerial technique because they're all so short!! It makes me go nuts!! We don't play aerial because footbal is SUPPOSED to be played with feet!!! How come people marvel at players like Maradona and Pele and Zidane and Ronadhino? Because they know how to MOVE those legs!!! Teams in latin american work hard at mastering the tecnique of moving the ball on the ground, even if that means playing at a slower pace while teams in Europe strive to be faster by getting the ball from point A to point B on the field by making long passes and playing aerial tactic. I can't say one is better than the other, because I enjoy watching soccer, the clean, fair play kind, too much, but I do rather much prefer cheering on a team I feel could play a "cascarita" anywhere in the world rather than a player that knows how to kick long passes. We're such geeks.

And P.S. The USA TOTALLY got screwed by the referee on that third goal!!!! I was SOOOOO pissed off when I watched the slow motion scenes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Jonna: Man!! I SO wish I could have been in Mexico to celebrate those goals!! Just watching them on Youtube was an exhilirating sensation, I CAN'T IMAGINE what it must have been like to be there!!!! And YAY for the Lakers!!! I saw the news about them beating the Celtics!!! Congrats!!!!!

Andromdea: With all that's been going on with the Anelka controversy, I have to agree that living the World Cup saga in France has been pretty interesting, even thought it's much less about the footbal and much more about the soap opera of the Equipe de France!!! LOL

Fned.

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